The First Step: In order to make a girl fall in love with you, she must first like you! Focus on this first. You can then build comfort, to make her fall in love with you too. It doesn’t matter whether this girl is an ex, someone who liked you before, a friend, or just a stranger. The same principles apply. Get her to like you first, and then working on making her fall for you.
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So how to make a girl like you?
Capturing a girl’s interest is not always as difficult as most men perceive it to be. It’s not that girls today are always playing hard to get – it’s very likely that they’re just as interested as you are in meeting someone nice. And it’s not that men aren’t making an effort either. The problem is that they are focusing their efforts into the wrong direction.
If you want a girl to like you, the things that you have to do are actually quite simple, such as the following:
- Smile. There is no better way to convey your interest in someone than by smiling at her. A genuine, friendly smile is the kind that works best because it makes her feel comfortable and it shows her that you have a positive personality.
- Be confident. Women like men who are confident and self-assured. But keep in mind that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and be sure not to cross that line.
- Listen. It’s very important for a woman to know that a man is genuinely interested in her as a person and not just as a potential sex partner. When having a conversation with a girl, make sure to maintain eye contact and be truly interested in what she has to say.
- Make her laugh. When asked what attracts them to a man, three out of five women say sense of humour. This doesn’t mean that you have to crack a joke every five minutes when you’re with her but it would definitely be to your advantage if you can be funny every once in a while.
- Don’t invade her personal space. Touching can either be a turn-on or a turn-off, depending on how it is done. If you’ve just met, for instance, it’s just common sense to respect her boundaries and not make any moves that might portray you as a pervert. But you can touch a woman in ways that are not sleazy at all, such as brushing a strand of hair from her face and tucking it behind her ear.
- Give her a compliment. Women like it when you say they look sexy or their dress is nice or their hair is fabulous, not necessarily because they’re vain but because they like that you noticed the efforts that they make to look good.
- Don’t be too eager. For some reason, a lot of men think that women will like them more if they show their eagerness to initiate a relationship, like by calling too soon or too often. But often times, this eagerness comes through as desperation, which is something that women don’t want.
Now that you know what you should and shouldn’t do, it will be a lot easier for you to make girls like you. In fact, if you follow the guidelines above, it’s almost 100% guaranteed that the girl you like will like you back. She may or may not fall in love with you but at least you’ll have your foot in the door – all you have to do is nurture the relationship if you want to take it to the next level.
This can be done by building comfort. All you need to then do is spend quality time together getting to really know each other. Share secrets, and go on adventures. Charm her and protect her. Once she likes you and you build comfort, she will fall in love with you – no question.